It seems as though we have no choice but to act as though the world is permanent, solid, and predictable, and, at the same time, we must realize that everything around us is impermanent, fluid, and unpredictable. If we go too far toward believing in permanence we will be thrown when something unexpected happens. If we lean too far toward a belief in impermanence we may fall into the trap of not setting clear goals, not achieving what is within our potential, and living in irresponsibly. This can be a way of protecting ourselves from failure or sometimes of protecting ourselves from success.
“Don’t be a board-carrying fellow.” This expression, sometimes used in Zen, refers to a carpenter carrying a long, wide wooden board on his shoulder, blocking his view in one direction. It is an admonition about seeing the world and ourselves as ordinary and mundane without also considering the sacred, mysterious, and unfathomable aspect of our hearts, minds, and surroundings.
“So when you practice zazen (Zen meditation) there is no idea of time or space. You may say “We started sitting at a quarter to six in this room.” Thus you have some idea of time, and some idea of space. Actually what you are doing, however, is just sitting and being aware of the universal activity. That is all. ....Time and space are one. You may say, “I must do something this afternoon,” but actually there is no “this afternoon.” We do things one after the other. That is all.”
Shunryu Suzuki, Zen Mind Beginner’s Mind
I had a teacher in business school who was fierce, intimidating, and a sweetheart. Ian McMillan was a wiry South African with a quick wit and a quick temper. He taught a class entitled “Entrepreneurship.” Our weekly assignment was to find and describe a business opportunity that came from our own experience. We had to spot a need that could be met by forming a business. In one page we were to describe the need, how our business idea would meet this need, and the general business proposition.
“ Right now my life is just one learning experience after another.… By the end of the week I should be a genius.”
When my mother became ill and it appeared that she was not going to live much longer, she sold her home in Florida and came to live with me and my family in Northern California. After many weeks of seeing a variety of doctors, we learned that she had developed a lung infection and did not have long to live. The doctors suggested that I bring her home and make her comfortable. Hearing this news, my mother was both sad and relieved and made the decision to give herself over to the process of dying.
Are you driven by time? Are your deeply held beliefs about time making you more and more busy, in a frantic, crazy way? Many theories have recently been put forth regarding the best way to manage time. Some say to forget about old-fashioned time-management techniques, but instead to manage productivity. Others say that the real secret of avoiding busyness while staying engaged is to manage energy. Still others say that the key to success and satisfaction is to have a clear purpose, clear values, and a clear internal compass to cut through distraction and busyness.
Wisdom is the art of knowing what to overlook.
— William James
Here are five practices that can be useful tools in reducing distraction or frenetic activity and cultivating focus and concentration. They are surprisingly easy to implement and, almost before you know it, can become positive addictions.
1) Appreciate Impermanence
I saw a cartoon in a recent New Yorker magazine in which two people were finishing their dinners at a Chinese restaurant and had just opened their fortune cookies. One fortune read, “You are going to die.”
Here are four practices to explore to develop and increase your creativity (adapted from LESS: Accomplishing More By Doing Less):
1) Trust in your own creativity: Have confidence in your creative abilities. If you lack confidence, begin by naming three of the most creative things you’ve initiated or taken part in. How does being creative feel? Are there ways you have been and are creative that are nontypical? Perhaps you enjoy baking, or karaoke, or crafting your own photo albums. Encourage your creativity by drawing, writing poetry, or journaling.
Adapted from LESS:
Generosity is an antidote to fear. When you practice generosity toward yourself and others, fear loosens its group. Generosity in this case means gratitude and acceptance for who we are and what is. After all, it takes less energy to relax and release than it does to clench and hold on, or to attempt to control or manipulate others or the environment. The result is greater accomplishment with less effort.