March 2009

Concentration: Just doing what you are doing – what an amazing idea!

“You may think that if there is no purpose or no goal in our practice, we will not know what to do. But, there is a way. The way to practice without having any goal is to limit your activity, or to be concentrated on what you are doing in this moment.”
Shunryu Suzuki, Zen Mind Beginners Mind

Of course, having clear goals is important. And, equally important is just doing what you are doing, without rushing ahead to get to the next activity.

Meditation Practice – Like Brushing Your Teeth

I understand how difficult it can be to incorporate a regular meditation practice into your life. I teach a meditation and mindfulness program at Google called Search Inside Yourself. Many of the people in the class find it difficult to meditate regularly. My suggestion, which seemed to work – treat meditation much like brushing your teeth. I don’t get up each morning and ask myself – “Do I want to brush my teeth this morning.” I just do it. Meditation practice is the same way for me.

Cultivating Composure

“You are perfect just as you are, and you can use a little improvement.”
- Shunryu Suzuki

Less Distractions/More Focus

“We can actually focus our minds in a way that changes the structure and function of the brain throughout our lives. . . . [B]eing aware of the present moment without grasping onto judgments offers a powerful path toward both compassion and inner well-being. This is what science verifies and what has been taught over thousands of years of practice.”
- Daniel Siegel, The Mindful Brain

Zen Practice/Business Practice

The Cure For Feeling Discouraged

There is a famous Zen dialogue in which the student says to the teacher, I’m feeling discouraged. What should I do?

The teacher responds by saying, “Encourage others.”

Of course, we all sometimes have the experience of feeling discouraged. It is only human for our expectations to not be met, to feel pain and difficulty, to want things to be different than they are. And, encouraging others is a simple, tangible activity -- with our family members, friends, and those we work with.

What are some ways that we can encourage other?

what is the secret to Happiness?

The Secret of Happiness

A student asked the teacher, “What is the secret of happiness?”

The teacher responded, “Good judgment.”

“Ah,” said the student. “How do I attain good judgment?”

“From experience.” Responded the teacher.

“Yes”, said the student, “and how do I attain experience?”

“Bad judgment” answered the teacher.

This short dialogue contains several different possible paths toward answering the original question about happiness.

Retreat To Get Ahead: The Benefits of Taking a Retreat, Especially During Difficult Times

We live in difficult times. There is no shortage of issues and situations to be concerned about; our lives and our world are filled with unknowns. Particularly stressful is the state of the economy – as blue chip companies become penny stocks, and job security becomes job insecurity.

Speaking Up: The No Festering Rule

In my work with corporate management teams, I’ve found that instituting a “no festering” rule can be a useful antidote to ward off false assumptions. As I’ve said, when we have a problem with someone and we don’t talk to them about it honestly and respectfully, our fears and resentments often fill the silence with false assumptions that can make situations much worse than they really are.