January 2010

Accomplishing More By Doing Less

Accomplishing More By Doing Less

There is an old story of a man riding very fast on a horse. As he rides past his friend standing on the side of the road, the friend yells, “Where are you going?” The rider turns toward his friend and yells, “I don’t know, ask the horse!”

Mindful Eating, Mindful Living

Mindful Eating, Mindful Living

"Mindfulness helps us understand that our conventional view of ourselves and even what we mean by "self" is incomplete in some very important ways. Mindfulness helps us recognize how and why we mis-take the actuality of things for some story we create, and then make it possible to chart a path toward greater sanity, well-being, and purpose. -- Jon Kabat-Zinn

I’ve recently begun experimenting with the Engine 2 Texas Firefighters Diet -- you can eat everything except animal products, sugar, white flour, and oils… Eating this way has brought a new level of attention to what I eat, a new appreciation for what I put into my body. After all, what could be more intimate then this act that we so casually call eating.

Slow Down To Move Fast

Slow Down To Move Fast

Speed kills. This is literally true when it comes to driving. The higher the speed, the greater the chances of fatalities. It is also true that working with speed and intensity, without modulating your activity, contributes to a host of physical ailments leading to a variety of health problems and a shortened life.

But often life itself moves fast, and we are challenged to move fast enough to keep up with it. Whether we are a work-all-night CEO or a stay-at-home parent, our days can become filled with the nonstop challenges of business, home, parenting, and relationships: phones ringing, emails flying, reports piling up, meetings and deadlines, children needing to be picked up from school, dinner to make, laundry to do, bills to pay, and so on. When problems arise, we sometimes must make split-second decisions and adjustments.

Enjoy Your Life, Whether Happy or Not...

Enjoy Your Life, Whether Happy or Not...

To “enjoy” your life is different than how we often think of happiness. Happiness is usually dependent on the circumstances, the situation, the perception and assessment of your life. We are happy when things go well, when we get what we want. To really enjoy your life means to appreciate your life, including what is difficult or unpleasant.

Of course, we all want to be happy. We want the best circumstances, we want to be successful, we want to heal, we want to make changes and improvements wherever possible -- and we all have exactly the life we have, right now. Here is a portion of a talk by writer Anna Quindlen, and a quote by Zen teacher Shunryu Suzuki.

From Anna Quindlen’s Commencement address at Villanova, June 2000: